Future to Present
Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve. - Napoleon Hill
Whenever
we talk about Goal setting or work on creating a Personal development plan, for
ourselves, we talk about a 4-step process, which can be of help.
Step
1: Ascertain where
you are now.
Step
2: Decide where you
want to be, …….. years from now?
Step
3: Think about how
you would reach there?
Step
4: Check for evidence/measurement, to know that
you are on the right track?
This
is conventional wisdom, which works on the principle of moving from “Present to
Future” and this method works. So, technically there is nothing wrong about.
However,
recently one of my friends in the training fraternity, Mr. Chandruvel Murugan
talked about a radically different approach to the existing paradigm. Though,
what he said sounded a bit irrational, I felt there was some truth behind it,
because it has worked for many great achievers, who have a “rags to riches”
type of story.
He said, “When we focus on ‘Present to Future’ approach, we are often limiting ourselves to the concept of practicalities. A person’s present mental condition doesn’t allow him to dream too big, because the tasks he needs to accomplish to reach there seems difficult. All the barriers towards reaching the desired goal becomes visible to his mind eyes. Many people give up even before starting, because the goals seem overwhelming. This in turn makes them to desire less, because they think that is what is practically possible. But, if we look at the life of some of the great achievers, they have reached far beyond one can imagine. So, how was it possible? It is probably because they practiced a reverse approach, which is ‘Future to Present.”
So,
what is this “Future to Present” approach? Instead of starting with the
present, you start with the future or rather the idealistic future you want to
be in. You believe that the current state of your life, doesn’t determine your
future. So, you first decide what you want to be, no matter what your current
situation is. This too has a 4-step process, but it is much different than the
previous method.
Step 1: Dream of what you wish to be.
Step
2: Believe firmly and unwaveringly, that you can
get there.
Step
3: Feel, as if you
are already in that idealistic situation.
Step
4: Act on every
opportunity to manifest the dream.
These
types of achievers, seem to have these common qualities.
- They have very big dreams with often gets mocked down, as being crazy, but they aren’t bothered about what others say.
- They have unwavering faith and belief in their dreams.
- They enthusiastically act upon making their dreams come true.
- They are always alert and dynamic, to all the opportunities that come their way.
- They are in constant search for networks, contacts, leads, skills, and resources, that will aid them to reach their goal.
- They do not restrict themselves to one method or strategy, whereas are open to new learnings and take hints from everywhere.
- They are less judgemental about others and more focussed about their own self.
- They don’t waste time and are always busy doing the things that will inch them closer to the goal, every day.
- They don’t curtail themselves, to their comfort zone, rather are willing to take bold risks.
- They will be willing to travel far and wide, to gain what they need and even migrate to a new place, if the situation demands.
And
when they work relentlessly on the pursuit, there is a strong possibility that
they will reach there.
While
the “Present to Future’ seems to be a more consistent and rational approach, the
‘Future to Present’ is a dynamic and irrational approach, which seems to have
worked for few people too. At the end of the day, it is all about growing and
so the choice is yours, to decide which approach suits you.
D. Senthil Kannan,
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